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Emily Wojcik's avatar

You are so much kinder than I! My reaction to the driver would have been a sympathetic β€œYes, and just imagine how much harder it would be to breathe if I had to haul you into court for deliberately causing grievous harm to my sick mother!”

But you are a good person. πŸ˜€

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Victoria's avatar

🀣 I hear you, hon. This is why we need an advocate for the advocate ;-)

It's not kindness, it's self-preservation- I've no extra energy to waste. Unfortunately, this is why people/things/organisations 'can get away' with a lot of things...and why we need more advocates for us (caregivers & less able/with chronic disease). I was satisfied I'd at least said something.

One-liners escape us in-the-moment - SO frustrating. But then, there are SO many of these moments we're partly desensitised and just want it over with.

Maybe we need to set up a goto list of one-liners to have handy!

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Emily Wojcik's avatar

I would totally make that list.

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Victoria's avatar

I hereby happily delegate, 'Badass one-liners that we all need to Emily' AND super-spouse... ;-)

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