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Thank you, Victoria. I had never heard of this. Great job being proactive, and advocating for your mom to get what she needed. It also shows the importance of having a good relationship with your loved one’s doctors. And about the exhaustion… the is probably the biggest contributor to my caregiver exhaustion right now—the whiplash of constantly, quickly switching between various responsibilities and roles.

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So sorry you and your mum had a tough week, Victoria. I would hope - am sure - the DDimer test would have been suggested without you having to ask for it with the symptoms and risk factors your mum presented with.

One thing to watch for is the doppler ultrasound is a yes/no and the DVT service will manage it if it’s a yes ( clot ) but if it’s a no ( no clot ) that’s great, but they will then advise you to go back to the GP, to work out what it is, the most common things being cellulitis ( infection needing antibiotics ); venous insufficiency which can benefit from support stockings; calf muscle injury; or a ruptured bakers cyst ( back of knee, related to osteoarthritis and gravity takes the fluid from it down into the calf ).

I hope the weeken brings you some rest from the appointments. ( Why do these things always happen on a Friday! ? )

Oh snd I’m totally with you on virtual wards. Happened to us once, with the additional joy of them saying, but bo nurse visits cos you’re a doc, you can do it. Which meant I basically managed him myself. xx

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