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I can really appreciate this, Victoria. Plus, it changes as our loved ones' care shifts. Being able to communicate everyone's needs and set those boundaries has been a learning experience for me. Setting boundaries and taking care of myself has been a game changer! I think it has improved my relationship with my mom.

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I hear you, Janine. This is why I think agility is one of the most significant skills caregivers become experts at!

It's good to hear you've been able to set boundaries for your own safety and wellbeing. I felt the same shift, when I could communicate to my parents how I needed to set a line in the sand and why. Recalibration is a continuously evolving necessity, for all our sakes.

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Yes. It has changed my attitude. Plus, I've been lifting weights! Helps so much with lifting my mom and a wheelchair--but not at the same time!😉

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Yes it is a balancing act - keeping them and everyone else against what THEY want. Wonderful article. Thank you.

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Helpful index! Inspiring me to do the same at some point...

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Thanks, Zan. Go ahead..you'll see the latest evolution of Carer Mentor emerge over the next week

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