Recommendations aka positive affirmations!
Many thanks to everyone who’s recommending my work and supporting this passion project, Carer Mentor: Empathy and Inspiration. Special thanks to those of you who’ve written a recommendation. This means a lot to me.
I confess that this page is probably more for me than you. We all need some words of recognition and encouragement. Having these testimonials is the positive affirmation I need to keep going!
Jody Day “Resources for caregivers and an understanding of the political and economic realities facing those needing, and those providing care in our society.”
Kristina Adams Waldorf, MD "Shining a light on the emotional and psychological struggles of caregivers is incredibly important. This is a subject that has been too long in the dark. "
Broadwaybabyto “Victoria writes heartwarming and insightful pieces about what it’s like to be a caregiver. She highlights the struggles caregivers face as well as what an important and often under appreciated role they play. “
Janice Walton “This newsletter is such a gift to all people who give care to loved ones.”
Sue Fagalde Lick “Many of us who end up alone have spent years caring for others. At her Substack, Victoria offers comfort and advice for those going through this. Give it a read.”
Amy Brown “Written by Victoria, who has been on a rollercoaster journey caring for both her parents, this newsletter offers a wealth of insights, tools and learnings to help carers on their journey, with great empathy in her writing.”
Jodi Sh. Doff “Resources specific to the UK, but caregiving and self-care advice that will save your sanity, no matter where you live.”
Anna Du Pen “Victoria offers a wealth of information and resources for dementia caregivers!”
Sarah Coomber “Lots of resources, food for thought and empathy here!”
Anna De La Cruz "Thank you, Victoria, for always bringing the care community together and sharing your wealth of knowledge and empathy! ""
Susan Marte “Victoria offers so much to those of us caregiving for others. She’s a wonderful resource.”
Janine De Tillio Cammarata 🖊️ “You put your heart and life experience into your work and it has significantly support my caregiver role. I thank you!”
Viva Mogi, MPA “To those who want a full range of caregiver stories and articles. This is the one go-to for a lot of beautiful content and stories.”
Cathy Joseph “The inspiring “Letters from a Caregiver” uses the wisdom from the present to heal one’s own past with empathy and compassion - a beautiful balm of peace.”
Trevy Thomas “If you’re caring for someone, this is a place to go where you can get care for yourself.”
The Caregiver “Caregivers we must remember this, “ We Are Not Alone!”“
NiftyKeisha “A great resource for caregivers and those requiring care and/or living with chronic illness”
Kaeli Hansen Caregivers Count “Victoria is building the caregiving community and posts great resources! She has been in the trenches as a caregiver and can empathize with caregiver struggles.”
Ollie “Victoria writes with hard-won wisdom about caregiving, having left her corporate career to care for her parents. Her newsletter offers practical insights and emotional support for anyone navigating the challenging but meaningful world of caring for loved ones.”
Tina Dad Lives with Me “Victoria offers valuable insight in this community.”
Debra Rafson “Victoria provides an incredible, centralized, treasure trove of resources for caregivers. Beyond that, she sheds light on the realities of caregiving, through her personal experiences and those of guest writers.”
Danusia Malina-Derben “Victoria is dedicated to honest, hope-fuelled caregiver support and resources. Her portal is wonderful respite for so many!”
Danielle "You are open, genuine, and bold! You LIVE the values you teach your clients. I want to stay connected to these insights and inspirations, and learn from where you've already gone. Thank you for giving of yourself so freely and boldly! "
Johanna Sartori “’If you love someone you will be a carer’ is so true. For some of us it will be a blessedly short experience for others it is a lifetime. Victoria’s substack offers exactly what the title suggests and is a great resource for anyone in this position.”
Wendy Frew “Emotional support, empathy and understanding for carers is just as important as practical help - and you will find all of the above at Carer Mentor”
Khadra Awomer “Carer Mentor is an excellent resource for caregivers from all areas, it provides tons of information, tips and resources that you can use on your journey. She shares inspiring posts from her own journey and from other caregivers, definitely go check out her publication!”
Lucy Furlong “This is the Substack I wish I had known about while I was caring for my Dad through his cancer journey - but even now, I am still caring for my son through a chronic disease AND also I am finding a HUGE amount of information, amazing writing and inspiration! This will be companionable reading for me for a long time, and for you if you have been or are a carer in any capacity. Victoria writes from her own experience and is open hearted and friendly. I am so so pleased to have this in my life!”
Cindy Martindale " I thoroughly enjoyed getting to know you through my Letters from a Caregiver contribution, and I recognized the ease of it was wound entirely in your organization--job well done make a big job seem painless! Count me in for the Community Hub; I can't wait to tell my subscribers.🤗"
Haley Haddow “"Habenula! I knew it wasn't all my fault! 😳 just kidding... 😜😂 Great insightful article, as I've come to expect from everything you create here... 🙏🏾 Very happy to subscribe and benefit from your knowledge and eager to learn and be part of the tribe... H x"
Serena Menken “Victoria provides thoughtful, thorough resources for caregivers. She is a wealth of information, with a beautiful heart!”
Bud Hager “Victoria continues to be a great resource for those living the caregiver life and those who wish to support them.”
Sara Clime “Victoria offers a deep well of knowledge, empathy, and love for the caregiving community.”
Chris B. Writes , “Carer Mentor is one of the most comprehensive homes for caregivers of all kinds. Victoria brings so many people together and has created one of the most important communities on Substack.”
Cooky Howitt “An invaluable resource for anyone who is currently, has been or will be caring. Which means all of us!”
Allie Varga_Spousal Caregiver “There is so much useful information packed into this site! A must read for anyone and everyone”
Marc Barnacle “Someone who speaks from a place of passion, experience & genuine desire to support and raise awareness - “Heartfelt empathy for Caregivers. A hub of practical tools, resources, and expert insights. A portal of hope.”“
Emily Wojcik “Most of my readers are friends and family, but I know some are thinking about traveling with help. This is a great resource for helpers (and others)!”
Loss to Living Mel Schlessinger “There is so much useful information for anyone who is a caregiver. It is much more than just how to be caregiver. There is helpful information about grief and dementia and more.”
Madeleine “Caregiving can feel isolating, and this Substack offers not only insight but real companionship along the way.”
Cherie Lee “Carer Mentor makes me think, gives me hope, and provides info that I may desperately need some day. Thank you, Victoria!”
Susan Fusco-Fazio “Victoria is a soulful and compassionate writer, and a resource for caregivers and grievers. She encourages, supports, recommends and connects many of us to each other on Substack.”
A Sandwiched Life “Victoria is a powerhouse of connective energy, putting substackers in touch with each other to help support each other in the caring and grief journey. I highly recommend her!”
Bonnie S. Heisse “A lot of practical tips for caregivers.”
Beverley Dickson “Victoria’s stack is for you if you are a family, friend or professional care-giver. Victoria has heaps of resources and recommendations to support care-givers and their resilience.”
Deneice K Anderson “Victoria’s subjects align with my thoughts on caregiving, caregivers and how we all handle it.”
Hannah Harris “Comprehensive resource for carers. Victoria is dedicated to supporting those in any kind of caring role and will go out of her way to help.”
Mark Stevenson “A great resource...stop reading this and head on over!”
A Sip, A Shout Out & A Sentence “Because caring is the initial step towards love and loved…”
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